NUESA LIFESTYLE: Life happens...define relationships now.

Published Date: Jan 18, 2024
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I'm beginning to appreciate the school of thought that believes friendship is evolutionary.

Over the years,we've drifted apart from circles of our friends,we formed new connections with people we never thought were possible.

What do we call that state?

"Did we outgrow each other?"

"Did you stop being open-minded?"

"Did our values and beliefs stopped allignning?"


I think these questions needs to be asked as we seek to understand the relationship we have with people who we often and sometimes wrongly generalise as friends.


The central theme of this text is that; 
life happens, and things may not be as they used to before,but it's only necessary to access situation and define relationships.

We have to come to the state where we can say without the feeling of guilt.


"She's a childhood friend"

"We were coursemates"

"Oh! An old friend"

"An acquaintance"


Acknowledging this ever-changing nature is crucial. We must dissect and discern, asking ourselves the tough questions. 

Only by actively defining these connections can we shield ourselves from recurring heartaches.


So, let's explore the world of friendships, knowing that things can change. 


This way, we can appreciate the past, enjoy the present, and shape the future of our relationships.


~Mercy Young

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